Mark Zeger Posted September 13, 2020 Share Posted September 13, 2020 May good memories bring comfort to you, your family, and all who love her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mighty Motif Max Posted September 13, 2020 Share Posted September 13, 2020 I'm so sorry! Too many bad things this year. My thoughts/prayers are with you during this time. Quote Yamaha: Motif XF8, MODX7, YS200, CVP-305, CLP-130, YPG-235, PSR-295, PSS-470 | Roland: Fantom 7, JV-1000 Kurzweil: PC3-76| Hammond: SK Pro 73 | Korg: Triton LE 76, N1R, X5DR | Emu: Proteus/1 | Casio: CT-370 | Novation: Launchkey 37 MK3 | Technics: WSA1R Former: Emu Proformance Plus & Mo'Phatt, Korg Krome 61, Roland Fantom XR & JV-1010, Yamaha MX61, Behringer CAT, Kurzweil PC4 (88) Assorted electric & acoustic guitars and electric basses | Roland TD-17 KVX | Alesis SamplePad Pro | Assorted organs, accordions, other instruments Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RichieP_MechE Posted September 13, 2020 Share Posted September 13, 2020 So sorry for your loss, Ron. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoodyBluesKeys Posted September 13, 2020 Share Posted September 13, 2020 My thoughts and prayers are with you, Ron. Condolences, and at least you know that she passed without months of pain. My father's last few weeks wee under morphine (legal) and still full of pain, he passed of prostate cancer, and in the 80's they didn't catch it in time. I also have experienced prostate cancer, although it seems to have been killed. Yes, looks like sleeping. My brother's wife passed less than two years ago, I was with him and members of his church at their home when she passed, in fact, I was the one who first found that she had passed. Looked just like an hour earlier, but no longer breathing. He remembers the years they had together. Quote Howard Grand|Hamm SK1-73|Kurz PC2|PC2X|PC3|PC3X|PC361; QSC K10's HP DAW|Epi Les Paul & LP 5-str bass|iPad mini2 "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." Jim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ksoper Posted September 13, 2020 Share Posted September 13, 2020 My deepest sympathies, Ron. I can't imagine the pain of losing a life partner. We met on a gig. In Ocean Shores Washington. We were playing on a Friday night, and she was the bouncer. She came to the stage and asked if we could turn down. In typical fashion, the guitar player turned up. I spent every break talking with her. The next night, I basically ignored her, sitting with some locals. Came up to me and told me I was a rude Son of a Bitch, and we were together ever since. This is one of the best origin stories I've heard. Cherish the memories. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David Emm Posted September 13, 2020 Share Posted September 13, 2020 My deepest sympathies, Ron. I can't imagine the pain of losing a life partner. We met on a gig. In Ocean Shores Washington. We were playing on a Friday night, and she was the bouncer. She came to the stage and asked if we could turn down. In typical fashion, the guitar player turned up. I spent every break talking with her. The next night, I basically ignored her, sitting with some locals. Came up to me and told me I was a rude Son of a Bitch, and we were together ever since. This is one of the best origin stories I've heard. Cherish the memories. +100 to that! How many great things happened because someone tripped over just the right moment, or ONTO the right person? Ron, I can sympathize all too easily; I've done the death watch. Part of coming to terms with it was simply accepting that giving that care to someone who was worthy of it completed a vital circuit. Many people have no one at all and are often forgotten to death. You two clearly had the vibrant opposite, which is a lovely coda for a Rude Son of a Bitch. Well done. Quote Do what makes you happy this week. So long as it’s not eating people. Eating people is bad. People have diseases. ~ Warren Ellis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Martin Posted September 13, 2020 Share Posted September 13, 2020 So sorry for your loss Ron. Quote -Mike Martin Casio Mike Martin Photography Instagram Facebook The Big Picture Photography Forum on Music Player Network The opinions I post here are my own and do not represent the company I work for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gino Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 So so sorry for your loss Ron Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eric Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 So sorry for your loss, Ron. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProfD Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 My condolences to brotha Ron aka Mr. Nightime and his family. Quote PD "The greatest thing you'll ever learn, is just to love and be loved in return."--E. Ahbez "Nature Boy" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nathanael_I Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 I am so sorry. There are no words. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Nightime Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 One of the first things that came to mind for me, once the fog lifted, was that I had fulfilled our vows. In sickness and in health, til death do us part. I told my drummer today that one of the reasons I didn't want to play more was so that I had time to spend with Cheryl. Well, now I don't have that reason, go ahead and book as much as you can. The bars open to 50% capacity tomorrow. I might have to go get a beer. Quote "In the beginning, Adam had the blues, 'cause he was lonesome. So God helped him and created woman. Now everybody's got the blues." Willie Dixon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midinut Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 So sorry to hear this Ron. Our prayers go out to you and the family. I think if we all could should how we'd go it would be in our sleep. Remember all the love and the memories you both shared. RIP Cheryl. Quote Hardware: Yamaha: MODX7 | Korg: Kronos 88, Wavestate | ASM: Hydrasynth Deluxe | Roland: Jupiter-Xm, Cloud Pro, TD-9K V-Drums | Alesis: StrikePad Pro| Behringer: Crave, Poly D, XR-18, RX1602 | CPS: SpaceStation SSv2 | Controllers: ROLI RISE 49 | Arturia KeyLab Essentials 88, KeyLab 61, MiniLab | M-Audio KeyStation 88 & 49 | Akai EWI USB | Novation LaunchPad Mini, | Guitars & Such: Line 6 Variax, Helix LT, POD X3 Live, Martin Acoustic, DG Strat Copy, LP Sunburst Copy, Natural Tele Copy| Squier Precision 5-String Bass | Mandolin | Banjo | Ukulele Software: Recording: MacBook Pro | Mac Mini | Logic Pro X | Mainstage | Cubase Pro 12 | Ableton Live 11 | Monitors: M-Audio BX8 | Presonus Eris 3.5BT Monitors | Slate Digital VSX Headphones & ML-1 Mic | Behringer XR-18 & RX1602 Mixers | Beyerdynamics DT-770 & DT-240 Arturia: V-Collection 9 | Native Instruments: Komplete 1 Standard | Spectrasonics: Omnisphere 2, Keyscape, Trilian | Korg: Legacy Collection 4 | Roland: Cloud Pro | GForce: Most all of their plugins | u-he: Diva, Hive 2, Repro, Zebra Legacy | AAS: Most of their VSTs | IK Multimedia: SampleTank 4 Max, Sonik Synth, MODO Drums & Bass | Cherry Audio: Most of their VSTs | Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RudyS Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 My condolences Ron! Quote Rudy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MathOfInsects Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 Many thoughts with you. Sorry to hear. Quote Now out! "Mind the Gap," a 24-song album of new material. www.joshweinstein.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe P Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 So sad, Ron, hang in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slg1013 Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 Please accept my deepest condolences, Ron. May Cheryl's memory give you strength and peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zxcvbnm098 Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 What a blessing to have had her for 26 years Ron. It's never long enough, but that's a darn good run. When my mom passed away many years ago, a friend sent me this poem. I found it comforting, as I hope you might...: When I am gone release me Let me go, I have so many things to see and do You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears Be happy that we had so many beautiful years I gave to you my love You can only guess how much you gave me in happiness I thank you for the love you each have shown But now it's time I travel alone So grieve awhile for me, if grieve you must Then let your grief be comforted by my trust It's only for awhile that we must part So bless the memories within your heart I won't be far away, for life goes on So if you need me, call and I will come Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near And if you listen within your heart you'll hear All my love around you soft and clear And then when you must come this way alone I'll greet you with a smile and say "Welcome Home." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tonysounds Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 Very sorry Ron, truly. Go play some music. Quote Hitting "Play" does NOT constitute live performance. -Me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xKnuckles Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 So sorry for your loss Ron. RIP Cheryl. Quote "Turn your fingers into a dust rag and keep them keys clean!" Bluzeyone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisDespo Posted September 15, 2020 Share Posted September 15, 2020 Truly sorry for your loss, Ron. Quote Kurzweil Forte,Roland Fantom 6,Hydrasynth,Numa C2X, SpaceStation V.3, other stuffs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MAJUSCULE Posted September 15, 2020 Share Posted September 15, 2020 So sorry for your loss, Ron. The music will lift you up and help her live on. Thinking of you. Quote Eric Website Gear page Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David R Posted September 15, 2020 Share Posted September 15, 2020 My condolences, Ron. Quote My Site Nord Electro 5D, Novation Launchkey 61, Logic Pro X, Mainstage 3, lots of plugins, fingers, pencil, paper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Warren Posted September 15, 2020 Share Posted September 15, 2020 This is so sad. My condolences Ron. Quote DigitalFakeBook Free chord/lyric display software for windows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnthonyM Posted September 16, 2020 Share Posted September 16, 2020 Ronald, you have my deepest condolences. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. ~ Anthony M. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteveCoscia Posted September 16, 2020 Share Posted September 16, 2020 RIP Cheryl. Hugs Ronald. Quote Steve Coscia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old No7 Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 I'm late to respond, but I'm very sorry for Ron's loss. --> May memories of the past comfort you -- today -- and in the future. About those words in "Death is Nothing At All", by Henry Scott Holland, saying "Death is nothing at all. It does not count. I have only slipped way..." Well, my mother chose those words to be read aloud at her service after she "slipped away" 2 years ago... I'll admit, those words were not too comforting to me back then... But now, after some TIME has passed... I just read them again, and I will say I was more comforted now than the first time I'd heard them. TIME... MORE TIME... TIME is key... We don't know how much we will get -- or when it will all end -- but time does help us who mourn, or those who will mourn for us. OK, now I need a brew............. And more TIME. Old No7 Quote Yamaha MODX6 * Hammond SK Pro 73 * Roland Fantom-08 * Crumar Mojo Pedals * Mackie Thump 12As * Tascam DP-24SD * JBL 305 MkIIs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BluesKeys Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 My Deepest Condolences Ron!!! Quote Jimmy Those are my principles, and if you don't like them... well, I have others. Groucho NEW BAND CHECK THEM OUT www.steveowensandsummertime.com www.jimmyweaver.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Nightime Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 I want to thank everyone that posted their condolences. The outpouring of support meant a lot to me. She's been gone for 12 days now. It is getting easier every day to deal with losing her, but it can still be hard sometimes. There is one thing that has really gotten me through it Music I bought an Alesis Recital for my office, so that any time I need some musical therapy, I can just sit down and play. This past weekend I played in church, and it felt like some sense of normalcy had returned. Tomorrow will be strange, as I have a few errands to do delivering death certificates. One thing she told me repeatedly, especially during the last 6 months, was she wanted me to continue living after she was gone, and not lock myself up and become a recluse. Cheryl, I am honoring that wish, and by doing so, honoring you. Quote "In the beginning, Adam had the blues, 'cause he was lonesome. So God helped him and created woman. Now everybody's got the blues." Willie Dixon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old No7 Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 ...she wanted me to continue living after she was gone, and not lock myself up and become a recluse. Cheryl, I am honoring that wish, and by doing so, honoring you. Wow... Amen to that. At the 1-year anniversary of my Mom's passing, I sent a video of a piano piece I'd written in her memory to the family -- I found that composing it in the days and weeks before, and then sending it out on that day to be very healing for me. Perhaps "A Song for Cheryl" or "Cheryl's Theme" will be performed by you 353 days from now. Wishing you well -- and all the healing and MUSIC you need. Old No7 Quote Yamaha MODX6 * Hammond SK Pro 73 * Roland Fantom-08 * Crumar Mojo Pedals * Mackie Thump 12As * Tascam DP-24SD * JBL 305 MkIIs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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