I'm with you on lightening the load, for this reason I've recently switched to the K&M 18880 with 18881 stacker.
https://www.k-m.de/en/products/keyboard-stands/keyboard-tables/18880-table-style-keyboard-stand-black
- lightweight .... 3.19kg
- folds flat for easy transport
- sets up in seconds
- table style (my preference) so no obstruction to pedals/boards etc
- very stable.
Very happy with it so far.