You are completely off-base here. I really don't feel anything at the moment. I'm just really pissed off. I'd give a kidney not to go through this. It's all just so sad. But I mean, oh well, what are you going to do.
Nice! That is the truth. The thing I learned about the stages of grief as it relates to divorce, vs. death & dying, is your counterpart to the process.
One can't expect the other person to fall through the same stages at the same times, and even divorces with the best initial intentions of amicability, can go south very quickly.
I went through this in 2006. The initial discussion was, amical split, no lawyers, friends after ... by the time the 90 day wait period was over & the divorce was final, none of those things turned out.
My best advice is to keep your expectations very low, like below ground level, throughout the process & beyond.
One emotion not on that list is Fear. I close friend of mine, who initiated her divorce, hit that stage many months after the divorce was final and found herself begging (i.e. bargaining) her ex to take her back. It wasn't that she wanted the marriage back, it was the fear of going at it alone and when it hit her, it hit her hard.