KenElevenShadows Posted December 18, 2004 Share Posted December 18, 2004 People always say that it's because of the danger...because there's excitement. But when women keep getting hurt by "bad boys", why do they complain and then go right back to him/them? And what would you say is the definition of a "bad boy" anyway? Ken Lee Photography - photos and books Eleven Shadows ambient music The Mercury Seven-cool spacey music Linktree to various sites Instagram Nightaxians Video Podcast Eleven Shadows website Ken Lee Photography Pinterest Page Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boosh Posted December 18, 2004 Share Posted December 18, 2004 Originally posted by It's Ken Upon a Midnight Clear: People always say that it's because of the danger...because there's excitement. But when women keep getting hurt by "bad boys", why do they complain and then go right back to him/them? And what would you say is the definition of a "bad boy" anyway?http://www.frantic-nutbush.com/booshy.jpg Fan, nu pissar jag taggtråd igen. Jag skulle inte satt på räpan. http://www.bushcollectors.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Flier Posted December 18, 2004 Share Posted December 18, 2004 Dunno. Personally I don't find that attractive at all, so, whatever. I think a lot of women have that sort of primal need for physical strength in a man, and nice guys in their minds come off like wimps. I don't like wimps, but I don't equate a nice guy with a wimp, nor do I equate strength of character with being a rebel or bad boy type. I think a lot of women do that though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tedster Posted December 18, 2004 Share Posted December 18, 2004 Going out on a limb...it probably works both ways...but it seems like if a guy treats a girl like a queen, she'll walk all over him, and if he treats her like dirt, she'll worship the ground he walks on. "Oh, but he's really a good person, and he really loves me" she says through black eyes and swollen lips. I've seen this happen all too often. Like I say, it probably works both ways... "Cisco Kid, was a friend of mine" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shars Posted December 18, 2004 Share Posted December 18, 2004 Originally posted by Lee Flier: Dunno. Personally I don't find that attractive at all, so, whatever. I think a lot of women have that sort of primal need for physical strength in a man, and nice guys in their minds come off like wimps. I don't like wimps, but I don't equate a nice guy with a wimp, nor do I equate strength of character with being a rebel or bad boy type. I think a lot of women do that though.Ditto Lee I don't find so called bad boys attractive in anyway, in actual fact, they put me right of! I get really put of by the attitude and the way they look like their somethng special. I've been there and seen it and most men that think they have something to offer turn out to be jerks anyway and tend to lie their way through life instead of being upfront. A decent man with some morals and he could be the ugliest of men means more in that they treat you properly rather than look down at you all the time. I certainly don't find men with bad arse attitudes and all the best things attractive at all. I personally think decent men are are hard to find in this day and age but at least I found mine and wouldn't change him for the world. www.myspace.com/yacababy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Flier Posted December 18, 2004 Share Posted December 18, 2004 Originally posted by The Sharster Of Crimbo Yet To Come: I don't find so called bad boys attractive in anyway, in actual fact, they put me right of! I get really put of by the attitude and the way they look like their somethng special. I've been there and seen it and most men that think they have something to offer turn out to be jerks anyway and tend to lie their way through life instead of being upfront. For real! You nailed it sistah! I think many people of both sexes are just looking for someone to live a lie with. That explains the whole manipulation/game playing thing on both sides: "I'll maintain this mystique/fantasy thing if you'll fall for it." And people do. Ugh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Super 8 Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Originally posted by Lee Flier: Dunno. Personally I don't find that attractive at all, so, whatever. Originally posted by The Sharster Of Crimbo Yet To Come: Ditto Lee I don't find so called bad boys attractive in anyway, in actual fact, they put me right of! Oh sure! They say this now. But then check out the guy they dump you for! And then you're like' "What do you see in THAT guy? You know he's just gonna hurt you." And they're like; "Oh, he's different! You just don't him on the inside! I can change him! I can change him!" My wife, for some strange reason, thinks Tommy Lee is sexy. TOMMY frikk'n LEE! The same womanizer who goes for the cheapest bimbo he can find. The same guy who is physically abusive. The same guy who has enough ink on him to look like the underside of a bridge. Yeah, THAT Tommy Lee. Don't ask me what she sees in him. Maybe it has to do with doing to a religious school all your life. My wife is pretty straight, but there is definitely a rebelious streak beneath the surface. Super 8 Hear my stuff here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Botch. Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 I'd guess that the majority of girls like this come from parents who act the same way, they think it's "normal". Sad. Botch "Eccentric language often is symptomatic of peculiar thinking" - George Will www.puddlestone.net Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Sayers Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 A recent test had a group of women with a group of differing men from dark and handsome bad boys to tender considerate plain men. The women would prefer to sleep with the bad boys yet would always prefer to marry the plain men. go figure cheers john Studio Design Forum Studios Under Construction Home Page Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
way2fat Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Its hard work to be an asshole all the time, but at least you get laid. www.ethertonswitch.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBach Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Lee, Aren't you the High Priestess in the Church of Keith Richards ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnb Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Way2fat hits it out of the park with: Its hard work to be an asshole all the time, but at least you get laid. I live for years as a rock 'n roll cliche. No real job, no car, no apartment, a cheap bass and rig, questionable hygiene, constantly drunk and/or stoned, never giving straight answers, making no promises and refusing to change anything about my life at the time. I was, by any standard, a womanizing jerk. I wasn't even pretty. I remember strolling through a casino one morning thinking it strange that I had not eaten or gotten laid and it was almost noon. I immediately ordered a pizza. While waiting for my pizza I picked up a girl in the lobby. Of course I was supposed to be seeing 4 other women in Vegas, but they weren't as convenient as girl in the lobby. Women love the bad boy. I have reformed my ways. I am a husband, a father and a registered voter (3 thing I thought I would never be). But as I look around the clubs and bars, nothing has changed. And since this seems to be the decade of the jerk... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Flier Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Originally posted by BBach: Lee, Aren't you the High Priestess in the Church of Keith Richards ?Umm... yeah, cuz he's my favorite GUITAR player. Not cuz I wanna go OUT with him. I wouldn't call him a typical "bad boy" anyway. I've met him and he is not a jerk at all, and is good to his wife and kids by all accounts. But still, I'd definitely enjoy hanging out with him more, but not dating him! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Flier Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Originally posted by Super 8: Oh sure! They say this now. But then check out the guy they dump you for!Wow. And then you're like' "What do you see in THAT guy? You know he's just gonna hurt you." And they're like; "Oh, he's different! You just don't him on the inside! I can change him! I can change him!"Sorry, I've never said or thought that. My wife, for some strange reason, thinks Tommy Lee is sexy. TOMMY frikk'n LEE!YOW. That's pretty scary. I used to see him around L.A. a lot before Motley Crue was even very famous and he was an abusive jerk THEN. And about the last thing I would've thought was sexy even though I was only a teen at the time. Nahh, my idea of sexy then was peace loving hippie freaks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrancedelicBlues Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Originally posted by Super 8: Oh sure! They say this now. But then check out the guy they dump you for! And then you're like' "What do you see in THAT guy? You know he's just gonna hurt you." And they're like; "Oh, he's different! You just don't him on the inside! I can change him! I can change him!" My wife, for some strange reason, thinks Tommy Lee is sexy. TOMMY frikk'n LEE! The same womanizer who goes for the cheapest bimbo he can find. The same guy who is physically abusive. The same guy who has enough ink on him to look like the underside of a bridge. Yeah, THAT Tommy Lee. Don't ask me what she sees in him. Maybe it has to do with doing to a religious school all your life. My wife is pretty straight, but there is definitely a rebelious streak beneath the surface.I bet Lee and the Sharster think he's sexy too!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Flier Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 I guess you didn't read the rest of the thread then, Mike. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitefang Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Some shit never changes. Way back in '68, I had a girlfriend that broke up with me to start going with a guy who wound up slapping on her, cheating on her, and eventually giving her the clap. ....but he had a cool CAR! Whitefang I started out with NOTHING...and I still have most of it left! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michael saulnier Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Although "good girls like bad boys" is the cliche we're discussing in this thread... It's also just as "true" that "good boys like bad girls"... Maybe they don't want to "marry" them... maybe they think they can "change" them... but they're often "attracted" to them... no doubt. How many times to you hear about the middle aged married man with kids, leaving his wife for the "stripper girlfriend". Or JFK and Marilyn. Charlie Sheen and Ginger Lynn. My point is... it goes both ways. michael I'm still "guitplayer"! Check out my music if you like... http://www.michaelsaulnier.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Flier Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Originally posted by whitefang: Some shit never changes. Way back in '68, I had a girlfriend that broke up with me to start going with a guy who wound up slapping on her, cheating on her, and eventually giving her the clap. ....but he had a cool CAR! Yeah, and I had a boyfriend once who dumped me for some bimbo he worked with who was so stupid he couldn't even have a conversation with her without getting mad at her. But she sure did have big tits! What can I say, there are a lot of just plain stupid people in the world who make stupid choices of a mate based on equally stupid reasons. I try not to see all guys as being somehow like my ex boyfriend though, ya know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBach Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Posted by Lee: "Umm... yeah, cuz he's my favorite GUITAR player. Not cuz I wanna go OUT with him. I wouldn't call him a typical "bad boy" anyway. I've met him and he is not a jerk at all, and is good to his wife and kids by all accounts. But still, I'd definitely enjoy hanging out with him more, but not dating him! " Well Ken there you have it. A nice caring guy like Keith Richards doesn't stand a chance. Girls "just want to be his friend". If Burl Ives played guitar like Richards before Richards did, Lee would have been the High Priestess in the Church of Burl Ives. The Rolling Stones, the sensitive an thoughtful boys of rock and roll. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Flier Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Originally posted by BBach: Well Ken there you have it. A nice caring guy like Keith Richards doesn't stand a chance. Girls "just want to be his friend". Not hardly, I think he's done quite all right with women. In my case I just wouldn't want to date him because we have shall we say, incompatible lifestyles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitefang Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 And has for a long time. After all, "Of Human Bondage" WAS written at the turn of the 20th century! Whitefang I started out with NOTHING...and I still have most of it left! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Flier Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Originally posted by michael saulnier: How many times to you hear about the middle aged married man with kids, leaving his wife for the "stripper girlfriend". Yup. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrancedelicBlues Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Originally posted by Lee Flier: I guess you didn't read the rest of the thread then, Mike.Yeah, sorry, i apologize I missed the part where you proclaimed your love for the peace loving hippie freaks like me wish there were more like you in the world, Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tedster Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 That's it. Fuck you all, I'm riding a Harley through a hotel lobby NOW! GIMME THAT FUCKIN' JACK DANIELS! And, furth...huh? What? Oh...err...yes dear, I'll do that right away dear. I'm sorry, yessss, dear, I should have done that sooner...dear... The life of a p-whipped bad-boy wannabe. (shrug) "Cisco Kid, was a friend of mine" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bearded yeti Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 The women who go for badboys are insecure with themselves, and look up to the "bad boy" because he quickly comes off as though he's brimming with confidence and apparent "strength", which is not as visible in the "strong silent type" without doing some digging first. This is why many high school girls go for bad boys, but the older they get, fewer and fewer of them see anything in the "bad boy" anymore. Of course, there's always a few that just never learn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Flier Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Yesss I think the Yeti speaks much truth. And speaking of Keith Richards, it's his birthday today and I am drinking Jack Daniel's and cranking up Beggars Banquet as we speak! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bearded yeti Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 The yeti knows, the yeti knows... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BBach Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Lee informs us: "In my case I just wouldn't want to date him because we have shall we say, incompatible lifestyles. And speaking of Keith Richards, it's his birthday today and I am drinking Jack Daniel's and cranking up Beggars Banquet as we speak!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrancedelicBlues Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Originally posted by BBach: Lee informs us: "In my case I just wouldn't want to date him because we have shall we say, incompatible lifestyles. And speaking of Keith Richards, it's his birthday today and I am drinking Jack Daniel's and cranking up Beggars Banquet as we speak!" sounds like a match made in heaven to me!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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