I'm far from the greatest player in the world. But I'm good, and have been asked to play with a healthy majority of the bands I've auditioned for. But one band in particular still haunts me. They brought me out, and I never heard from them again. I really wanted the gig, because they make great money at nice venues. I was ticked off after not hearing from them. But now, a former band mate and friend of mine is their new guitar player. When he comes to my gigs, he brings some members of the band that never called back, and I admit, deep-down, I hate them. Well, not hate, but it's weird. To this day none of them have even explained what happened. (They eventually hired a guy who can sing well -- I can't, so I'm fairly sure that was the issue). I feel weird asking "why didn't I get the gig?" (sounds childish and I lacking confidence). Anyone have similar experiences?
