I've never quit a band. The bands I've been in have usually either faded away, or morphed into something else. That's one of the bands I'm in now. That said, while I generally enjoy the band, I have tinnitus and the band is notoriously loud (at least for me). I have no desire to use ear plugs as everything I've tried makes the experience not pleasant at all.
I tried to resolve some of the aforementioned issues while keeping things low key, but, my efforts have fallen on deaf ears!!!
So, I am contemplating giving notice. I've known most of these band members for at least a decade or more. I want to give them time to find a replacement player. What have been your experiences in quitting bands? Is there a protocol for doing so? I am thinking 60 days should be sufficient. I can commit to playing all the gigs on the books until then (or until they find a replacement, whichever is earlier).
Finally, I don't want to burn bridges but, again, I may never play music with any of these guys again. Who knows!?
Any thoughts and advice are appreciated. . .
aL