yes.... this brings back the memories of when Greta Garbo and I ended our engagement in the late 1950s.... a quite severe backlash absolutely! A consolation is that today shes doing extremely well singing and playing bass/ keyboards for her band Greta Van Fleet........all's well that ends well.......
This discussion reminds me of the three instances I was in where the incredibly loud and busy/ frantic guitar player absolutely demanded the drummer leave his cymbals, other than the hi-hat, at home......