#387197 - 07/08/05 03:25 PM
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John O. Lennon
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Originally posted by theblue1: PS... with verbs of equivalence (is, am, are, etc) a quick and dirty test is to just turn the sentence around. You might be tempted to say "If you were me..." but you'd probably never say "If me were you..." ( Here\'s more info .) [/QB] Logic fails here, Blue. By turning the sentence around one must reformat the subject/object forms. Reversing "if you were me..." becomes "if I..." not "if me..." because you have switched their places &, logically, would reselect the proper subject form, whether or not one used "were" or "was".
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#387198 - 07/08/05 03:28 PM
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Sorry, John, but you're wrong.
The correct form would be "If you were I" -- whether you like it or not.
The crucial difference here is that, unlike "I shot him" -- where "him" is, indeed, the object of the predicate "shot" -- "I" is not the object of the predicate but an equivalent to the subject.
You can read a more carefully stated explanation here .
Many educated people feel that in saying It is I, Whom do you mean? instead of It's me, Who do you mean? they will be talking like a book, and they justifiably prefer geniality to grammar. But in print, unless it is dialogue, the correct forms are advisable.
So, don't get me wrong, in the 21st century, saying "It is me" in informal usage is just fine. It's not technically correct but it's acceptable for everyday use and probably preferable for those concerned about the "extended-pinky-finger" issues you cite (-- the gutless conformists.)
But, again, it is not technically correct. And there are both logical and historical bases for those rules.
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#387199 - 07/08/05 03:43 PM
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#387200 - 07/08/05 03:47 PM
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That brings up the "for unlawful carnal knowledge" theory/myth...
Anyone want to weigh in with any new theories on the origin of... er, no, let's not and say we didn't...
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#387201 - 07/08/05 04:14 PM
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"If I were you" is correct.
Forget about subjects, objects, and equivalence. This is the subjunctive mood.
The subjunctive mood is used when the statement is contrarty to actual fact. Here are some examples.
- If he were here, this would not have happened.
- If she were prettier, I would consider dating here.
- If I were a rich man, I'd write a grammatically correct version of that old song.
- If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride.
- I wish that she were here with me tonight.
English speakers and writers are sloppy with their application of the subjunctive. They say abominally horrible things such as -
- "I wish that I WAS rich."
- "If Kobe was Jordan, the Lakers would have won."
- "If I was you, I'd find a new job.
WRONG! WRONG! WRONG!
I wish that English speakers were more aware of the subjunctive mood.
Here is more info --> LINK
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#387203 - 07/08/05 05:17 PM
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John O, sorry if you think I was trying to "best" anyone here, but that certainly was not my intent. I think the ensuing dialog here pretty much has my point covered (as well as enlightening me on "If … were". Thanks Blue1 and Dan S! See, I’m not above giving credit where credit is due). I was merely stating my case and noting what otherwise would not have been known, which is that I’m basing my claims on at least knowing enough to make a living dealing with grammar. But there’s always more to learn. As the "if … were" dialog shows.
But just to address some other things here:
Originally posted by John O. Lennon: A speaker of Old English would hardly know what was being said by people on the streets of London today---& not just because of new words; even the words they used would be enunciated differently & in many cases used differently. Since you were also an English major, I’m sure you, too, had to suffer through Beowulf as originally written (well, I suffered, particularly because I don’t speak or read German).
Also, I think the difference between linguistics and grammar is beyond a "quibble"; I was thinking of grammar as but one aspect of linguistics as it applies to a specific language (whereas linguistics also goes as broad as encompassing the study of how and why humans at large communicate). That was based on how my studies at school were broken up (we dealt with things other than English grammar in linguistics class, but compared some English grammar to Latin grammar, for example, to illustrate a broader linguistic point). I looked up "grammar" in Webster’s and it seems to confirm this.
Anyway, linguistics fascinates me. I was pretty good at it, too ... analyzing all those phenomes and such ... dang, I actually got an A+ in a linguistics class when most people were feeling lucky to eek out a B-. But, at the time I couldn't see any real application other than teaching linguistics for such a degree, so I didn't pursue it.
Originally posted by John O. Lennon: The structural rules of one language are often adapted by those learning a new one (like emigrants learning English in NYC) & often then become commonplaces in that tongue as they spread. ... If you're familiar w/ the Gullah dialects of the SE USA, (which are the roots of what's referred to as "Black English"), you can see exactly what I mean. If I understand your point correctly ... are these structural changes considered grammatically correct English? I don’t have a lot of experience with that, so that’s an honest question. I did find this on the Web though:
http://www.co.beaufort.sc.us/bftlib/gullah.htm#Background:
Originally posted by John O. Lennon: Here's one that I really dislike: Two very effective & useful terms ("affect" & effect") have virtually vanished in just a couple decades because people have adopted, quite incorrectly, the term "impact" rather than either of those words. Impact is a term for physical contact (impacted tooth, meteor impact, etc.). I agree; I often have to correct wrong uses of "impact" as a verb out of writing. Another thing I'm always correcting is "ensure" vs. "insure."
Anyway, who'da thunk an OT discussion on grammar would be so popular? As far as I am concerned, this is cool. But then, I am kinda geeky (or would that be nerdy?).
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#387204 - 07/08/05 06:07 PM
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I'm just some college-dropout who took a few creative writing and comp lit classes...
Still, dumb ass that I am, I recently caught the person who was my former first-call on grammar (a former tenured university instructor who had taught plenty of comp and advanced comp) on the "It is I" thing (she said "It is me" was preferred -- which left me, as they say with pinkie lifted, positively agog). Happily, it only took a minute or two on the web to find plenty of authoritative backup for my position and she quickly acknowledged her error. (Well, one of the reasons she quit her university was that she thought they weren't giving their students a rigorous education. Talk about hoist on your own petard... [Anyone care to tackle the conjugation that gives us a past tense like hoist? What's the present tense, for cryin' out loud? Is this verb so dead it doesn't even have one?!?] Well, what can you say? Her specialty was 17th C. lit.)
Which just goes to show ya, it's a) easy to lose track of the particulars of this complex subject and b) it's good to keep some perspective. After all, the most important thing is communicating one's thoughts in a straightforward manner in the tone one wishes to convey. If one bends or breaks grammatical convention but communicates (and the grammatical infractions aren't too distracting to the intended audience), WGAF?
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#387205 - 07/08/05 06:10 PM
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Originally posted by Jeff Leites: Isn't "It" the subject, "is" the verb and "me" the object? Hence, "It is me" would be correct? Jeff, the object would be "me" with any verb other than the verb "to be."
It SMACKED me.
It TICKLED me.
It ANNOYED me.
It LIKES me.
It ATE me.
But, because of the equvalence rule that others have mentioned, you can't say,
"It IS me."
You have to say,
"It is I."
Although, I'll be the first to admit that when I call a close friend or a family member on the phone, I say, "Hi, it's me!" I never say, "Hi, it is I!" It sounds too pompous even though it is grammatically correct.
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#387206 - 07/08/05 06:26 PM
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As someone who has written advertising, marketing, and public relations copy, I'm always torn about proper grammar.
Obviously, if one is writing an academic paper or essay, one should bite the bullet or risk being thought a buffoon (or a business major).
When writing in a public but informal context like a BB, I rather like to mix it up. I find a good, pinkie-lifted erudition nicely sets up a vulgar, street-fight insult-punchline.
But writing for business can be tricky. Many business people are well educated. Many are not.
Writing for the public is trickier still.
Ultimately, I find myself looking at the cultural context, sampling the common style and usage, and then trying to fit in like the good borderline sociopath that I am.
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PS... apropos of nothing above -- but I didn't want to waste this tidbit of newly gleaned (or perhaps rediscovered, I've long ago started reusing old neurons, like the ichthyology prof who said "Everytime I learn a student's name I forget a fish"):
From my brief survey a few minutes ago, I determined that my habit [I've wavered, actually for years] of setting off the "s" on plurals and dates of acronyms (as in "CD's" instead of "CDs" or "1970's" instead of "1970s") is frowned on by most authorities, allowed by a smallish minority, and favored by damn few.
Now I'm going to go back through all my 19,000 posts or whatever it is and...
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#387207 - 07/10/05 09:38 AM
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Originally posted by geekgurl: John O, sorry if you think I was trying to "best" anyone here, but that certainly was not my intent. I think the ensuing dialog here pretty much has my point covered (as well as enlightening me on "If … were". Thanks Blue1 and Dan S! See, I’m not above giving credit where credit is due). I was merely stating my case and noting what otherwise would not have been known, which is that I’m basing my claims on at least knowing enough to make a living dealing with grammar. But there’s always more to learn. As the "if … were" dialog shows.
But just to address some other things here:
Originally posted by John O. Lennon: A speaker of Old English would hardly know what was being said by people on the streets of London today---& not just because of new words; even the words they used would be enunciated differently & in many cases used differently. Since you were also an English major, I’m sure you, too, had to suffer through Beowulf as originally written (well, I suffered, particularly because I don’t speak or read German).
Also, I think the difference between linguistics and grammar is beyond a "quibble"; I was thinking of grammar as but one aspect of linguistics as it applies to a specific language (whereas linguistics also goes as broad as encompassing the study of how and why humans at large communicate). That was based on how my studies at school were broken up (we dealt with things other than English grammar in linguistics class, but compared some English grammar to Latin grammar, for example, to illustrate a broader linguistic point). I looked up "grammar" in Webster’s and it seems to confirm this.
Anyway, linguistics fascinates me. I was pretty good at it, too ... analyzing all those phenomes and such ... dang, I actually got an A+ in a linguistics class when most people were feeling lucky to eek out a B-. But, at the time I couldn't see any real application other than teaching linguistics for such a degree, so I didn't pursue it. John O, sorry if you think I was trying to "best" anyone here, but that certainly was not my intent. I think the ensuing dialog here [omit "here"] pretty much has my point covered [supports my point] (as well as enlightening me on "If … were". Thanks Blue1 and Dan S! See, I’m not above giving credit where credit is due). I was merely stating my case [there is nothing “merely” about stating a case] and noting what otherwise would not have been known, which is [change "noting what otherwise would not have been known, which is" to "explaining"]that I’m basing my claims on at least knowing enough to make a living dealing with grammar. But there’s always more to learn. [change period to comma] As the "if … were" dialog shows.
Since you were also an English major, I’m sure you, too, had to suffer through Beowulf as originally written (well, I suffered, particularly because I don’t speak or read [omit "or read']German).
Also, I think the difference between linguistics and grammar is beyond a "quibble"; I was thinking of grammar as but one aspect of linguistics as it applies to a specific language [omit “as it applies to a specific language”] (whereas linguistics also goes as broad as encompassing [change “also goes as broad as” to “covers”] the study of how and why humans at large [omit “at large”] communicate). That was [change "That was" to "My view is"] based on how my studies at school were broken up [change “broken up” to “organized”] (we dealt with things other than English grammar in linguistics class, but compared some English grammar to Latin grammar, for example, to illustrate a broader linguistic point [redundant - how about "grammar was one among other topics in linguistics class"]). I looked up "grammar" in Webster’s and it seems to confirm this. [vague]
Anyway, linguistics fascinates me. I was pretty good at it, [omit comma] too ... analyzing all those phenomes [phonemes] and such ... dang, I actually got an A+ in a linguistics class when most people were feeling lucky to eek out a B-. But, [omit comma] at the time I couldn't see any real application other than teaching linguistics for such a degree, [to avoid squinting modifier ("teaching linguistics for such a degree" could mean that the teaching of linguistics leads to such a degree), this should be “at the time I couldn’t see any real application for such a degree other than teaching linguistics”] so I didn't pursue it.
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#387208 - 07/10/05 10:26 AM
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Regarding this topic....I could care less.
Oops..that's incorrect. Should be...
I couldn't care less.
Big difference in those two lines.
Now, let's get to the important stuff...
When are the dictionaries of the world going to get with the program with a few important words..
"Seperate"..... That's the way the world wants to spell it. Let em have it! Forget this "separate" spelling that no one wants to use. You can't fight the masses.
I was taught that "irregardless" is not a valid word. Makes sense to me. Yet, I now see it in numerous dictionaries. Let's get "seperate" in there too and just be done with it.
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#387209 - 07/10/05 01:52 PM
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Oh, come on, B-Lips ... that's a bit heavy-handed, isn't it? Thanks for correcting my transposition spelling error, but other than that, you actually changed the meaning of what I said in some places (you can speak German without reading it and vice versa, can't you?) and changed writing that was not really incorrect, but rather just not formal enough for your liking. This is a forum, not an academic paper. Copyeditor, you're FIRED!!
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#387210 - 07/10/05 02:59 PM
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#387211 - 07/10/05 03:43 PM
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Originally posted by geekgurl: Oh, come on, B-Lips ... that's a bit heavy-handed, isn't it? Yes, it is.
However, the temptation to correct the incorrect grammar of those who are criticizing the grammar of others is just too great to resist. It is the one and only circumstance in which I would ever criticize the grammar of anyone on line. You know, irony. Other than that, it’s all good.
(I probably should have kept my mouth shut and stayed out of this! Yours are the illuminating posts in this thread.)
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#387212 - 07/16/05 01:59 PM
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Originally posted by geekgurl: John O, sorry if you think I was trying to "best" anyone here, but that certainly was not my intent.Naw, just tryin' to head off the "credentials parade" that often is used to support positions. .
Originally posted by John O. Lennon: A speaker of Old English would hardly know what was being said by people on the streets of London today---& not just because of new words; even the words they used would be enunciated differently & in many cases used differently. Since you were also an English major, I’m sure you, too, had to suffer through Beowulf as originally written (well, I suffered, particularly because I don’t speak or read German). Fascinating!
Also, I think the difference between linguistics and grammar is beyond a "quibble"...I lookred up "grammar" in Webster’s and it seems to confirm this.
My larger points (incomphrehnsibly?) are that rules change. They are often misapplied from one area to another. Authority positions likewise change. Check a dictionary/grammar tome from another time & you'll get a diferent set of rules. Again verbal language, like it's cousin music, is ever-changing---there is no end-all set of constants---& the only real point is communication. Everything else is dressing.
Originally posted by John O. Lennon: The structural rules of one language are often adapted by those learning a new one (like emigrants learning English in NYC) & often then become commonplaces in that tongue as they spread. ... If you're familiar w/ the Gullah dialects of the SE USA, (which are the roots of what's referred to as "Black English"), you can see exactly what I mean. If I understand your point correctly ... are these structural changes considered grammatically correct English? As already said sometimes they come to be considered so. I did find this on the Web though: A foolproof source for facts!! If one looks for an authority, at least be selective.
As to other points... "If I were..." Dan & others are correct in that that is the accepted form however it's still a rule transported into English from the grammar of Latin & intented to "elevate" the language from it's vernacular. I consider that sort of thinking to be akin to people who insist that only certain harmonies are valid because that's what was acceptable at one time.
It's a big world. I can't stop Nazis or KKK from marching in Illinois, so I know I've little chance of saving the world by monitoring how most people speak & I've small concern for convincing those who may be convinced they're correct (or find authority figyaz 2 support they argyamints). By now all should know that I am more concerned with "right" than "correct". [In the words BOOKUMDANO was searching for, "I could care."] There's a difference & sometimes, though here's hardly an example, that's an important distinction.
In other news, I'm away for a few days & AIRBODY'S UP & PACKIN' FOR HARMONY CENTRAL [never been there, all I hear here is what a buncha Yahoos they are]. DANG!
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#387213 - 07/16/05 04:34 PM
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Originally posted by Dan South:
English speakers and writers are sloppy with their application of the subjunctive. They say abominally horrible things such as -
- "I wish that I WAS rich."
- "If Kobe was Jordan, the Lakers would have won."
- "If I was you, I'd find a new job.
WRONG! WRONG! WRONG!
I wish that English speakers were more aware of the subjunctive mood.
"If I was a carpenter and you was a lady would you marry me anyways would you have my baby's"
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