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#2931045 - 06/04/18 10:25 AM "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum
Winston Psmith Offline
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I had a very nice show this past weekend, with a handful of other local performers, but one issue came up that's stuck with me . . .

One of the performers was flying in from San Francisco, and didn't want to trust his Guitar to luggage handlers. (I can almost hear everyone out there in the Forum, saying, "Hell, no, neither would I!") I got an email from one of the organizers, asking if I had a Guitar he could borrow. My response was that I would rather lend someone a kidney than any of my Guitars, but if nothing else presented itself, he could use my Epi Les Paul.

As it turns out, they found a Guitar for him, a very nice Gibson Les Paul, and once I'd met the guy and heard him play, I would very likely have let him use any Guitar I didn't need in my hands at the moment. Still, in general, I don't lend my Guitars to anybody, even if I feel like something of an asshole for saying "No" to another player, and that's the issue.

Do you, or would you, lend your Guitar to some other player, especially as in this case, where it's someone you don't know, and haven't even met?

My Guitars aren't particularly valuable nor rare, nothing I couldn't replace with the right amount of cash, and a bit of looking around. It bothers me to say "No", because I really believe we should be helping to support one another as Musicians, and fellow humans. Then, I think about Prince smashing Kirk Douglas' vintage Crestwood, on Jimmy Fallon's show!?!?! Maybe it was the pain-killers that night, but this is a guy (Prince) with his own collection of custom Instruments, tossing aside another player's prized Guitar like firewood. WTF doesn't even begin to cover it.

The show went on, everybody had a Guitar to play, all's well that ends well, but I'm sure the question will come up again, at some point. What say you?
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#2931048 - 06/04/18 10:28 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Winston Psmith]
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I have and do... it depends on who's borrowing... and that's the thing, I have mere acquaintances I've let borrow gear because of their reputations and character, while I have fairly good friends and bandmates that I refuse to...

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#2931058 - 06/04/18 11:18 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: p90jr]
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The thing about the “Bambi” incident is that Kirk seems amazingly cool about it. Far cooler than I would be, after all.

Part of it may be that he has found out Prince did this more than once, so it wasn’t personal:
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Yes, in the past, he's pretty famous for tossing guitars in the air and someone being there to catch it. Since this incident, I've heard from several people that he's taken other people's guitars and tossed them and not arranged for anyone to catch it. He'd take care of it in some way later. But he's built a career of sort of being eccentric and it's one of those ways he expresses his eccentricities.


Part of that may be that it got fixed:
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I found this guitar years ago, probably in 2004, at 30th Street Guitars in New York from a guy named Matt Brewster, who also put it back together. And I felt good with him doing that since I bought it from him in the first place. And ever since I bought it from him, he periodically jokes and asks to buy it back from me because he knows how special it is, too. I remember going to the store when I plugged it in, I was blown away by its singularity and tone. It had a beautiful snarly sound to it and if you look at the pickups here, these are the pickups normally found in Firebirds, they say Gibson on them. So much of this guitar is not original.


http://www.epiphone.com/news-features/features/2013/kirk-douglas-the-epiphone-interview.aspx

(Still a dick move, Prince Rogers Nelson, R.I.P.)

As to the question at hand, like p90jr, I have loaned out instruments before. I have no problem doing that with those I know & trust. (Or whom I know can replace/reimburse.)

By the same token, I don’t think less of those who say no.
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#2931065 - 06/04/18 11:27 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Dannyalcatraz]
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Originally Posted By: Dannyalcatraz
(Still a dick move, Prince Rogers Nelson, R.I.P.)


In the extreme. No amount of money can replace a family heirloom or a gift from a departed spouse. It's not about the money, it's the self-regarding, total lack of respect for another human being. F**k Prince.
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#2931081 - 06/04/18 12:16 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Scott Fraser]
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Borrow in my presence is one thing, just loaning one out - No!

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#2931098 - 06/04/18 12:49 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: DocPate]
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I've been loaned a great many things... so I return the karmic favor... but there's some people who you just don't... luckily, they seem to have already created case studies in how they shouldn't be trusted if you just listen.

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#2931106 - 06/04/18 01:26 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: p90jr]
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I've borrowed and loaned amps & effects. I loaned one of my basses to my niece for a couple of years while she was learning. I don't think I've ever borrowed a guitar, except for one studio session where the engineer's band-mate let me use his Rick 12 string for a song.

Last time I loaned a guitar was at an outdoor festival, and one of the bands after me was having sound issues, mainly with the singer's guitar. I saw his pain and offered him the use of my PRS SE Semihollow (but not the Gibson ES 335). It took two falls from the stand - one from the wind, one from someone tripping over the guitar cable. Minor scratches, but another reason why I don't do this often, nor with the Gibson. (And yes, he was very apologetic.)
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#2931118 - 06/04/18 02:13 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Danzilla]
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Would I loan one of my guitars to someone I don't personally know and trust? Not just no, but HELL NO! Would I loan one of my non-Carvin guitars to someone that I personally know and trust? Probably. No one is allowed to touch my Carvin unless I am within arms reach of it at all times. No exceptions. Ever.
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#2931131 - 06/04/18 03:39 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Sharkman]
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I do not loan out any of my guitars nor do I borrow any...I do let a buddy borrow one for a tune or two just to try it out and they do the same just to get my opinion of their new axe(s)... cool
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#2931141 - 06/04/18 04:38 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Larryz]
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I have loaned out guitars, and never thought much of it, till I found out one of the guys I was trying to help had lost somebody's guitar he had borrowed. He said it was stolen out of his car one night, but the strong possibility exists that he pawned it, or sold it to somebody on the sly. The guy, it turns out, is not at all trustworthy.

Either way, I thought it was inconsiderate of him to leave it in his car overnight. I got mine back from him immediately after that, and I haven't loaned out a guitar since.

But then, nobody has asked to borrow one since, so I haven't turned anybody down, either. I think I'll be a bit more picky about who and how in the future.
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#2931148 - 06/04/18 05:05 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Winston Psmith]
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Originally Posted By: Winston Psmith

Do you, or would you, lend your Guitar to some other player, especially as in this case, where it's someone you don't know, and haven't even met? the question will come up again, at some point. What say you?


I do not like others to play my instruments. I keep them spotlessly clean on the rear of the neck, and if someone else plays one it seems sticky on the back of the neck. I then cannot play it until I clean it. If you wanna play bring your own instrument, that way you are qualified to play. I would never go out and play someone elses instrument. I need the slickest grease free neck, because I slide all over the neck and I do not want any drag.

None of my guitars have any monetary value, I sold all of the expensive ones over the past 4 or 5 years, one at a time.

It is simply a matter of cleanliness.
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#2931149 - 06/04/18 05:09 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: desertbluesman]
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I did lend out my brand new Strat one time to a musician who was opening for Jeff Beck in New York City. When he returned it he told me that Beck played it all night in his set because his guitars did not show up.

He never got his hands on any of my instruments again. I do not care who played it it is up tp me to lend out my instrument not someone close to me who borrowed it and then lent it out.
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#2931167 - 06/04/18 07:00 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: desertbluesman]
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That’s not cool.

(On the other hand, Jeff Beck played your guitar.)

In a similar situation, I’d have tried call you to let you know what the situation was, and to get your permission. And had someone called ME about that kind of thing, I’d have go-ahead...but I’d want photos or some such.

Hmmmm...I might just include a”Jeff Beck” clause for future loan-outs. Y’now...just in case I can’t be reached if the situation arises.


Edited by Dannyalcatraz (06/04/18 07:04 PM)
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#2931177 - 06/04/18 07:37 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Dannyalcatraz]
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"What say you?" No.

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#2931199 - 06/05/18 01:00 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: mikesr1963]
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I have to confess that I myself have been on the borrowing end even though I would normally say you DON'T ask to borrow somebody's instrument, but it really depends on the circumstance.

Just recently, the lead guitar (I'm primarily keys) in the band I often fill in with is doing some sort of Def Leppard one-off show and asked me if he could borrow my Explorer. He's an excellent guitar player, friend, I trust him, and it makes perfect sense to want to play an explorer in a Def Leppard tribute. No problem.

Our corporation has a major trade show/expo every year with our users. One of the rep organizations who had a band started putting on a music show, where employees or customers who signed up ahead of time could basically perform. The rep agency band was sort of the "house band" and people rotated in and out on a pre-planned basis with pre-planned songs based on communication ahead of time. Again, my primary instrument is keys, but I also play guitar, and the powers that be assigned me a few songs to play on guitar. My understanding was there was full backline, instruments, etc all provided but you could bring your own instrument. Not practical to bring keyboards and swap them with the house rig, so I knew I was using that rig. My understanding was that I'd be playing the guitar rig as well. Some folks brought guitars, there were about 5 sitting on stands. I sound checked on one, not really knowing whose it was. Turned out I wouldn't have access to it and had to ask the "house band" guitar player if I could use his. He reluctantly said ok -I assured him that I am 100% responsible for it in every way. I felt bad, but the whole situation with so many people and the whole changeover was pretty sketchy. It was pretty huge -we had it at House of Blues in Denver at the time and had the place at capacity all night.

At least I highlighted his beauty for the camera:



Edited by J. Dan (06/05/18 01:06 AM)
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#2931203 - 06/05/18 04:07 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Winston Psmith]
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I REALLY try not to get in that situation. If someone breaks my guitar neck, I say let the punishment fit the crime! I can make it relatively painless...
That said, I have had two luxuriously long-term loans, one a `69 pearl white Custom Shop Strat that I couldn`t stop playing, and is recorded on my music page. It was in my possession for about three years, and was returned without a scratch. If someone else could guarantee that same level of care, would I let them take away one of my guitars?
Nope. Sorry. That`s kind of hypocritical isn`t it-TFingB. Better that than lose a friend over an accident that didn`t need to happen. Or lose more of my already fragile trust in humanity.
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#2931204 - 06/05/18 04:11 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: J. Dan]
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I have been known to borrow, in which case I take care of the instrument and return it with a pack of new strings.... you know, common courtesy.

Lend? Sometimes, but not to strangers or friends with serious substance abuse problems. Or people who show a lack of responsibility in general......

Even letting other people play my instrument is selective.. for example, I like to sit in the park and play on a nice day, but I don't bring my stage guitar, because people come up, sometimes drunk, and want to borrow it, and I don't want to take a chance.

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#2931213 - 06/05/18 04:45 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Eric Iverson]
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Yeah, sure....who is borrowing is a huge factor. I know guys I'd never let borrow my guitar(s), and those who'd refuse to LOAN one to me. wink

No real conundrum here.

But there ARE the twits who you don't know that want to at least TRY OUT your axe...For example, when I was in a band, and we did play the rare but occasional basement party, I've had TWO times the same thing happen....

Some clown would approach me and ask, "Say, can you let my buddy play your guitar for a minute or so? He plays REAL GOOD, so how 'bout it? He can play "JOHNNY B. GOODE!" So, he'd point to some spot in the room and some glassy-eyed greaser lookin' type of fool would be standing there grinning. so I'd HAVE to ask, "Why doesn't HE come here and ask?"

The SECOND time that happened, I had to look hard at the guy asking to see if it was the same guy as before. BOTH guys. Odd thing was, they weren't the same two, but one's ability to play "JOHNNY B. Goode" was both times supposed to be he big "selling point" grin

Needless to say, I turned them both down.
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#2931245 - 06/05/18 07:41 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: whitefang]
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Thanks, everyone. The "No" vote wins, in this case.

As I said, having met the player in question, and seen him play, sure, I'd lend him a Guitar - though probably not one of my SG's.

Stangers, drunks, imbeciles of all shapes and sizes, it's not even a question. Letting one out of my sight - not going to happen, I don't care who's going to play it.
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#2931321 - 06/05/18 03:57 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Winston Psmith]
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None of my instruments is valuable except sentimentally & even then in a limited way. Their value is strictly to the extent of their replacement cost.
2 Reasons: the deliberate decision to view them as tools & the resulting idea that they're by nature replaceable.

There have been times, esp when younger, when the loan of an instrument have helped me considerably.
That said, there are alternate views & I respect those.
Certainly if y'loan an instrument to 1 party & they, w/out consultation, loan it to a 3rd, that's outta line, even if it's a famous person (witness the PRN stories above---hard to believe J Beck didn't have his gtrs, though, unless this was back in YBirds days...& in more modern times, in NYC I'd think the show promoter'd be on the phone to SRI or something).

One possible idea, although sure to raise an eyebrow in some corners, is developing a preset agreement form (ala DannyA) for the conditions of loaning an instrument, thereby making the handling of any resulting problems more cut & dried.
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I've a sidetrack question.
Not finding a film of the PRN / Capt Kirk incident mentioned above; can someone describe exactly what happened ?
Considering that Fallon's is a comedy show, oft w/a touch of pretense, is it possible that was a staged incident ? idk
PRN was sometimes a bit arrogant, etc, but he always seemed quite respectful of those he considered real musos.
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#2931357 - 06/05/18 09:11 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: d]
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Here’s the whole 2 song performance.
http://v.yinyuetai.com/video/h5/639296

Here’s a gif of the finale,


Edited by Dannyalcatraz (06/05/18 09:11 PM)
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#2931374 - 06/06/18 04:34 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Winston Psmith]
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Originally Posted By: Winston Psmith
Letting one out of my sight - not going to happen, I don't care who's going to play it.


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Y'mean, not even if they CAN play "Johnny B. Goode" ? idk freak facepalm wink
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#2931417 - 06/06/18 08:34 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Dannyalcatraz]
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Originally Posted By: Dannyalcatraz
Here’s the whole 2 song performance.
http://v.yinyuetai.com/video/h5/639296
Here’s a gif of the finale,


I have absolutely zero respect for anybody who treats someone else's property like this. A complete dick.
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#2931425 - 06/06/18 09:01 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Scott Fraser]
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Originally Posted By: Scott Fraser
Originally Posted By: Dannyalcatraz
Here’s the whole 2 song performance.
http://v.yinyuetai.com/video/h5/639296
Here’s a gif of the finale,


I have absolutely zero respect for anybody who treats someone else's property like this. A complete dick.


Yeah... I lost a lot of respect for him with this and his initial attitude (refusing to pay for the repairs) afterward...

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#2931428 - 06/06/18 09:13 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: p90jr]
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I remembered something... my band was playing a show that had two opening bands (I think that was the situation) and the first band was a young band doing its first show... in the middle of the second song the rhythm guitarist broke a string on his guitar, and didn't have a spare... and from the look on his face when the song ended and the band all looked at him, didn't have an extra set of strings, either... so I hopped onstage and grabbed my backup guitar from my rack - which was my 1965 Gibson SG Special - and a stringwinder and box of bulk strings and handed him the guitar and took his... he said "are you SERIOUS!?!?!?!" "Yeah, just don't smash it..." I put on a string for him and tuned it and put it on the corner of the stage and let him play the SG for the rest of the night. I think his guitar was Fender Jagstang or something... he was very grateful.

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#2931431 - 06/06/18 09:16 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: p90jr]
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FFS!!!!

I have refused to even touch a friend's Guitar, as they were saying, "Here, check this out!", because my hands were dirty! Seriously!

There's an old, seldom-used word, that perfectly describes the mind-set behind such a dick move: the word is "Effrontery". Some words deserve a comeback . . .
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#2931435 - 06/06/18 09:32 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Winston Psmith]
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I was trying to find the original post on the internet to repost, but since I can't remember which band posted it... I'll have to do it from memory:

Their band loaded in and did a soundcheck at a club, when the promoter walked up and says the words NO band EVER wants to hear:

"Hey, my friends The Dwarves are here and they were wondering if they could play short set on your gear?"

For those not in the know, The Dwarves are a notoriously nihilistic and destructive and violent punk band from Seattle... like, trying to live up to what people feared "punk rock" was like when they heard about it...

So they said "FU@K NO!!!!" and promoter got pissy...

Then, the guys in The Dwarves came over, out of costume and talked with them... and they were very nice and friendly and intelligent and charming and funny and seemed like very sensible human beings. And after a while they asked again... "hey, can we play a short set on your equipment... and the band said "well... you guys are very nice... if you promise not to break it... we're a broke band on tour..." "Of course not, man... we understand..."

So, The Dwarves change into their costumes, go onstage when the crowd gets there... plays 6 of their one-minute songs and destroy all of the equipment.

When one of the guys in the other band said "Man... you promised..." the response he got was "We're The Dwarves... you can't trust us!!!"

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#2931436 - 06/06/18 09:32 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: p90jr]
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Originally Posted By: p90jr
I remembered something... my band was playing a show that had two opening bands (I think that was the situation) and the first band was a young band doing its first show... in the middle of the second song the rhythm guitarist broke a string on his guitar, and didn't have a spare... and from the look on his face when the song ended and the band all looked at him, didn't have an extra set of strings, either... so I hopped onstage and grabbed my backup guitar from my rack - which was my 1965 Gibson SG Special - and a stringwinder and box of bulk strings and handed him the guitar and took his... he said "are you SERIOUS!?!?!?!" "Yeah, just don't smash it..." I put on a string for him and tuned it and put it on the corner of the stage and let him play the SG for the rest of the night. I think his guitar was Fender Jagstang or something... he was very grateful.


That guy is probably still telling everyone how his very first gig was saved by the intervention of an absolutely awesome stranger. Good on you, you're a mensch.
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#2931455 - 06/06/18 11:50 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Scott Fraser]
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Originally Posted By: Scott Fraser
Originally Posted By: p90jr
I remembered something... my band was playing a show that had two opening bands (I think that was the situation) and the first band was a young band doing its first show... in the middle of the second song the rhythm guitarist broke a string on his guitar, and didn't have a spare... and from the look on his face when the song ended and the band all looked at him, didn't have an extra set of strings, either... so I hopped onstage and grabbed my backup guitar from my rack - which was my 1965 Gibson SG Special - and a stringwinder and box of bulk strings and handed him the guitar and took his... he said "are you SERIOUS!?!?!?!" "Yeah, just don't smash it..." I put on a string for him and tuned it and put it on the corner of the stage and let him play the SG for the rest of the night. I think his guitar was Fender Jagstang or something... he was very grateful.


That guy is probably still telling everyone how his very first gig was saved by the intervention of an absolutely awesome stranger. Good on you, you're a mensch.


I've had my butt saved by strangers in bands I was opening for... or just by strangers in the crowd, so many times... especially when I was younger, I feel a karmic duty to help. Even now - and people make fun of me being redundantly over-prepared, with a big bag of every kind of cable and power cord and extra one-spots and strings and tubes and fuses - the universe will throw a curveball and something goes wrong, and thankfully someone is always there if I need something.

Especially when I was a young gigging bassist with nothing more than a Peavey Basic 40 that in a pinch I could just use as a direct box that was pumped through the monitors and sounded acceptable at best, other bassists on shows would say "no, man... let's plug you into my SVT/GK/Trace Elliot/whatever rig... there you go!"

Also, that guy I helped... the cute girl he was dating at the time and I ended up dating later, and she said that moment made her have a huge crush on me... which was not my motivation and I hadn't even seen her, yet.

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#2931457 - 06/06/18 11:56 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Scott Fraser]
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I only have 2 guitars, so I wouldn't loan one. I need, using the word need loosely, 1 for a backup. If I get another guitar I would loan my Squier Strat, but not my Deluxe Player. The DP was a blemished model, so only coat $500, but I love it.

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#2931465 - 06/06/18 01:07 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: surfergirl]
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I have to say this: both the first acoustic and the first electric guitars I played were borrowed instruments- 6 months worth, in the case of the electric.

But in each case, the loans were from individuals who trusted me. The acoustic was my Mom’s. The electric was owned by a friend of mine.
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#2931488 - 06/06/18 03:51 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: p90jr]
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Originally Posted By: p90jr
Originally Posted By: Scott Fraser
Originally Posted By: Dannyalcatraz
Here’s the whole 2 song performance.
http://v.yinyuetai.com/video/h5/639296
Here’s a gif of the finale,


I have absolutely zero respect for anybody who treats someone else's property like this. A complete dick.


Yeah... I lost a lot of respect for him with this and his initial attitude (refusing to pay for the repairs) afterward...


From p90's comment, I guess there's no point in my hoping that was somehow not KD's gtr &/or a planned trick.
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#2931522 - 06/07/18 03:39 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: d]
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There are one or two cases where I will make an exception-a recording artist who is a good friend of my cousin, came to town. She wanted to play a set but didn`t have a guitar-or a venue. In this case, I helped arrange her gig and had plenty of advance notice as well as a backup acoustic that I brought to the club. I played a couple of my songs and then let her take the stage. Everything turned out well.
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#2931526 - 06/07/18 04:08 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: skipclone 1]
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Yeah, back when I had that plastic EMENEE I mentioned in the "First Guitar" thread, my step sister( who was my 1st instructor) loaned me the (as I later recalled) nice cream colored TELECASTER and small Gibson amp of a friend of HERS for about a week. And yeah, I knew THAT person as well. And of course, since I wasn't "gigging" and had no need to take it out of the house, they had no need to worry. wink
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#2931773 - 06/07/18 10:29 PM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: whitefang]
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As somebody who plays multiple instruments, I'm just curious if this group would view playing somebody else's guitar differently than borrowing somebody else's instrument of a different variety - bass, keys, drums, microphone? What about sitting in?

Personally, microphones gross me out. I always bring my own not just because I bought a good one and like the sound, but because the thought of a bunch of potentially sick people spitting into a mic before me isn't very pleasing - but that goes both ways. Does somebody sit in and sing into your mic? I play sax, and of course using somebody's reed is a big no-no, very disgusting, more so than any issues with guitar, trust me. I consider bass and guitar sort of equal. Keys are a mixed bag. First there's just the issue of setup -splitting the keyboard to where somebody else may not know which sounds are on which part of the keyboard, etc. Generally there's not a big risk of damage, but more of things like data loss - overwriting programs. More like letting somebody borrow your laptop and install their own software on it. Drums, I don't play, but have heard many opinions. Of course heads and sticks can be broken, not to mention regular wear and tear, and the differences in setup of the hardware.

To add to this....this weekend I'm filling in with a 5pc acoustic band I used to play with. I'm playing electric acoustic bass most of the night, but I got the list and there were 2 songs I used to play sax on. Usually that means one of the guitar players played my bass. I don't know what it is but every time I get it back after he plays it, the strings feel sticky grimy and gross under my fingers. I've been told by other people outside of the band (on this forum actually) that some people just have body chemistry that does that. Not looking forward to whatever songs come after the ones where he plays my bass.


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#2931813 - 06/08/18 07:03 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: J. Dan]
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@J. Dan - Slightly different responses to the questions you pose.

If I'm going to an open mic situation, where everybody in the near world is using the same mic all night, I bring a couple of spare foam "Pop" filters, in different colors, so we know when we've changed one: a cheap and easy solution, makes everything a little cleaner. Fortunately for everyone, I don't tend to sing . . .

I don't loan out my Synths, but I always have back-up files of my sounds, so if someone did wipe the memory on one of my toys, I'm only stuck until I can get it back home, and re-load the sounds. Even in that case, I'd most likely be left with the factory patches, so there'd still be sounds to play.

My pedalboard is much like my Guitars; don't touch anything, unless I invite you to.

I did loan out one of my Amps for the 100 Guitars event. A young woman traveling by train didn't want to haul an Amp with her, so I loaned her my little KB Amp. I got it for $80 bucks at a local pawnshop, and have gotten more than $80 worth of use out of it, so if it died a noble death at some show, I'd still have gotten a good story out of it. I'm much more particular about my Guitar Amps, less likely to let anyone plug in.

Your buddy with the sticky fingers reminds me of a buddy whose body chemistry ate strings. Seriously, at the end of a night with this guy, a new set of strings looked and felt months old; don't know if coated strings might have helped? If you have to let 'sticky fingers' use your Bass, bring a cleaning rag, so you can at least give it a quick wipe, before you have to play it again. FWIW, after a long night out, I tend to clean my Guitars thoroughly, anyhow; better than putting them away with my sweat and dirt on them.
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#2931821 - 06/08/18 07:48 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Winston Psmith]
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I would tell old sticky fingers to bring his own bass, I would never share a wind instrument sax, clarinet, flute, trumpet, etc. I have shared my keyboard when it was needed at some major jam sessions but not my guitars. I don't mind singing into a mic at open mic's and just back off a little and have the sound guy give me a little more volume if needed. I prefer singing into my own mic though and my own amps and PA equipment. I don't mind letting people plug into my amp but keep an eye on them and will lower the volume on the amp if needed...it's all in how you want your equipment to be used or not to be used! +1 on bringing a rag and some cleaner if you can't say no to sticky fingers LOL! cool
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#2931822 - 06/08/18 07:59 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: Larryz]
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Ya, I was sold on the idea of my own mike some years back. Finally did it two years ago, best move ever.
I don`t know if it makes a difference to say but, part of highly acidic `body chemistry` is likely due to diet. Soft drinks, junk food, red meat and various intoxicants are acidic in nature. One way to say no but be cordial about it is, `sure, you can borrow my instrument-I just have a few questions. Are you vegetarian? are you a smoker? do you eat potato chips? how often do you drink alcohol?...`
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#2931843 - 06/08/18 09:07 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: J. Dan]
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Originally Posted By: J. Dan
As somebody who plays multiple instruments, I'm just curious if this group would view playing somebody else's guitar differently than borrowing somebody else's instrument of a different variety - bass, keys, drums, microphone? What about sitting in?

Personally, microphones gross me out. I always bring my own not just because I bought a good one and like the sound, but because the thought of a bunch of potentially sick people spitting into a mic before me isn't very pleasing - but that goes both ways. Does somebody sit in and sing into your mic? I play sax, and of course using somebody's reed is a big no-no, very disgusting, more so than any issues with guitar, trust me. I consider bass and guitar sort of equal. Keys are a mixed bag. First there's just the issue of setup -splitting the keyboard to where somebody else may not know which sounds are on which part of the keyboard, etc. Generally there's not a big risk of damage, but more of things like data loss - overwriting programs. More like letting somebody borrow your laptop and install their own software on it. Drums, I don't play, but have heard many opinions. Of course heads and sticks can be broken, not to mention regular wear and tear, and the differences in setup of the hardware.

To add to this....this weekend I'm filling in with a 5pc acoustic band I used to play with. I'm playing electric acoustic bass most of the night, but I got the list and there were 2 songs I used to play sax on. Usually that means one of the guitar players played my bass. I don't know what it is but every time I get it back after he plays it, the strings feel sticky grimy and gross under my fingers. I've been told by other people outside of the band (on this forum actually) that some people just have body chemistry that does that. Not looking forward to whatever songs come after the ones where he plays my bass.


Every soundman I know either sprays the mics with something after each show or takes off the windscreen balls and soaks them in something after each show, giving them time to dry and evaporate bfore putting them back on.

I carry mics, a couple of Beta 58s for vocals, SM57s and Senn E609s for guitar and even a beta 52A for bass/bass drum in case of emergency (come to think of it, a soundman might not have given one of these back...)... soundguys usually don't want to use them, for whatever reason (not what I'm used to... don't want to get confused on who they belong to...), though I have lost several over the years.

I play in a band with a germophobe singer... he forgets one SM58 EVERY gig and has to buy another one. He just sings... and always is pretty much on the way home before the rest of the band puts the guitars down. if I think to grab it (and argue with the soundguy to remember that he used his own) when he freaks out the next day I say "I grabbed it." He was also thinking he should "upgrade" to a more expensive mic... "oh, to lose more money every time we play?" He is independently (and family) wealthy, so I guess it doesn't matter if his gig money goes to mics every time we play.

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#2931857 - 06/08/18 09:46 AM Re: "Can I borrow your Guitar?" conundrum [Re: d]
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Originally Posted By: d
Originally Posted By: p90jr
Originally Posted By: Scott Fraser
[quote=Dannyalcatraz]Here’s the whole 2 song performance.
http://v.yinyuetai.com/video/h5/639296
Here’s a gif of the finale,


I have absolutely zero respect for anybody who treats someone else's property like this. A complete dick.


Yeah... I lost a lot of respect for him with this and his initial attitude (refusing to pay for the repairs) afterward...


From p90's comment, I guess there's no point in my hoping that was somehow not KD's gtr &/or a planned trick.
Yow. razz

[/quote]

Well, Prince used the guitar in soundcheck because his gear hadn't arrived, yet... but then he sent over someone asking if he could buy the guitar and use it on the show. KD said "I don't want to sell it but of course he can use it..."

Epiphone interview with Captain Kirk Douglas about the incident and the guitar

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