He tolerates you but loves your wife - I bet she feeds him too.
That's funny.
As a condition of us getting a cat my wife had to agree to handle all the feeding and cleaning the litter box. (She wanted a cat, and I gave in with that condition)
We got a kitten back in 2007, and the cat loves me. A lot. She tolerates my wife, but loves me to death. I'm always the one she curls up and lays on, and comes to when she wants to be pet. She even tends to sleep on or next to me at night.
It drives my wife nuts..