I am moving my studio into a (mostly) unfinished basement space, and am opting to do the "rigid fiberglass with Guilford fabric covering" thing on the ceiling that Ethan recommends on his website, opposite a laminate floor. It's a 90 year-old house, big wood support posts and beams in the basement, the joists are 7.5" deep & spaced 16" on center, height to actual ceiling (floorboards) is 7.5'. The control room is a cozy 10' x12.5', and there is a stairway dividing the control room and studio areas so the joists in each side are only 10' long and not contiguous (here is a picture):

Here's what I need help on:
1) Is there an extra benefit to using 705 (paper facing up) instead of 703 in the ceiling? How thick should I go?
2)The joists seem a bit resonant when I tap on them (maybe because of their shorter length)....will having the fiberglass in the cavity dampen them a bit, even though the rigid won't be in close contact with the joists like the fluffy stuff would be? Do I need to be concerned about them acoustically?
3) To increase the isolation from above a bit more (there's fir hardwood and an area rug above the control room side and fir/foam sheeting/laminate over the studio side), I was thinking of either: a.) Green Gluing and screwing 5/8" drywall strips to the ceiling in between the joists (plus acoustic caulk maybe at the seams?); or, b.) strips of vinyl sound barrier (1 lb/sq ft) stapled and glued. Any thoughts on either, or suggestions for alternatives? That seems to be the downside of the fiberglass & cloth ceiling vs. the usual drywall ceiling... low STL.
4) Any need to dampen the 5" square horizontal support beam on the stairway-side (maybe mass loaded vinyl?) so sound in the studio doesn't vibrate it mechanically (directly and from the floor via 2 support posts) and then flank to the control room joists and the floorboards in contact with both joists and beam?
I'm puzzling over this, since I don't want the 5/8" drywall/steel stud with Roxul/double 5/8" drywall wall I'm putting between the control room and studio area to be significantly comprimised by ceiling flanking. I am going to extend the drywall all the way up vertically to the actual floorboards (cutting notches for the joists and caulking the edges) so it should be airtight and the actual beam will be behind the double layer of drywall. It's the mechanical transfer I'm worried about.
Thanks in advance for any input you guys can give...it's a bit over my head (yikes...sorry...couldn't resist...)
Michael