Kel,
> Heck of a time getting them to sit right. <
Did you put the Molly bolts in the ceiling, 8 inches out from the wall? Here's a photo showing a wall-ceiling trap in my living room:

> I'm getting it. Are the mounting brackets supposed to bow out like they are for me? <
No, and you can see in the photo above that they stay straight when everything else is correct.
--Ethan